At the end of last month, Mercy, Kathy, Shannon and I went to talk to Ajan Marjorie’s class on what the Easter holiday is in the United States. Obviously, Easter is related to Christianity. So, Ajan Marjorie told the story of Jesus’ resurrection as we hid some Asian jelly candies and golden chocolate coins outside. Although I had spoken in Ajan Marjorie’s class before, I realized that there were more students than usual that showed up – then I remembered this was the last class of the semester and for those who wanted extra and needed points this was the last day. There were two girls in particular who caught my attention; one was because they weren’t wearing their uniforms and two, because their hands were glued to their mascara and compact mirrors. I mean, I understand if you’re running late to class and need to touch up – in the bathroom, but they did throughout the class period – their were four student guests. I knew Ajan Marjorie was annoyed with their disrespect and she would constantly ask them for their opinions, they’d just smile innocently, bat their lashes and get back to their makeup. There was even a time when Ajan Marjorie asked one of the girls who was painting on liquid eyeliner, to come up and help her mix some dye. The girl sat with her eyes closed, hand wave dried her eyelids and said, “Can you wait, I have to see my boyfriend after class”. We were all astonished. For me, I felt like I was in a high school classroom, and even during my high school years, we had a lot more respect for teachers. We might have been equally uninterested in what the teacher was teaching, but we’d have enough respect to ask to use the bathroom – 25 minute bathroom break, and not disrupt the class. Finally, during the last 10 minutes of class the students got to go searching for our hidden candies. It was really cute seeing a bunch of college students extremely excited to look for candy. Some people even got really vicious, stealing other people’s candy. The power of holidays is amazing. So Ajan Marjorie’s last day of class ended with the holiday called Easter and what it means, similarly to the States, most of the students think of Easter as the hidden candy holiday.
Monday, April 20, 2009
ICU- Class Discussion on the Holiday Called Easter
At the end of last month, Mercy, Kathy, Shannon and I went to talk to Ajan Marjorie’s class on what the Easter holiday is in the United States. Obviously, Easter is related to Christianity. So, Ajan Marjorie told the story of Jesus’ resurrection as we hid some Asian jelly candies and golden chocolate coins outside. Although I had spoken in Ajan Marjorie’s class before, I realized that there were more students than usual that showed up – then I remembered this was the last class of the semester and for those who wanted extra and needed points this was the last day. There were two girls in particular who caught my attention; one was because they weren’t wearing their uniforms and two, because their hands were glued to their mascara and compact mirrors. I mean, I understand if you’re running late to class and need to touch up – in the bathroom, but they did throughout the class period – their were four student guests. I knew Ajan Marjorie was annoyed with their disrespect and she would constantly ask them for their opinions, they’d just smile innocently, bat their lashes and get back to their makeup. There was even a time when Ajan Marjorie asked one of the girls who was painting on liquid eyeliner, to come up and help her mix some dye. The girl sat with her eyes closed, hand wave dried her eyelids and said, “Can you wait, I have to see my boyfriend after class”. We were all astonished. For me, I felt like I was in a high school classroom, and even during my high school years, we had a lot more respect for teachers. We might have been equally uninterested in what the teacher was teaching, but we’d have enough respect to ask to use the bathroom – 25 minute bathroom break, and not disrupt the class. Finally, during the last 10 minutes of class the students got to go searching for our hidden candies. It was really cute seeing a bunch of college students extremely excited to look for candy. Some people even got really vicious, stealing other people’s candy. The power of holidays is amazing. So Ajan Marjorie’s last day of class ended with the holiday called Easter and what it means, similarly to the States, most of the students think of Easter as the hidden candy holiday.
ICU – Lunch Exchange
Tuesday, March 31, 2009
ICU: กรุงเทพมหานคร อมรรัตนโกสินทร์ มหินทรายุธยา มหาดิลกภพ นพรัตน์ราชธานีบุรีรมย์ อุดมราชนิเวศน์มหาสถาน อมรพิมานอวตารสถิต สักกะทัตติยะวิษณุกรรมประสิทธิ
[FYI - Not Edited]
Bangkok -
On February 25th to the 28th we had our second Thai studies trip to Bangkok. We left on the evening of the 25th on a 14 hour train ride to Bangkok. I had never ridden in a train before so this was pretty exciting. When we first entered the car a pushy stewardess was handing me a glass an orange juice to drink. I looked at it, and then looked at her — seeing if it was free or not, and she gave me a look and said, “Yes, take it.” So I took it, sat down and drank it… The juice was pretty disgusting — tasted like Tang, with extra sugar water. In out train cars, I found the seats to be very comfortable and spacious, getting to the bathroom and seeing other people was really accessible. The toilets were another story, since the bath rooms were at the end of the car it was extremely shaky. Trying to sit or even shut the door was difficult.
Later on our pushy stewardess came back, this time with over priced meals. Luckily for me I had eaten at PIH before leaving. Most of the students chose not to eat, thinking the train provided free meals — they were not, each meal was in the 150 baht to 200 baht range, which was outrageous for train food! Since I was the only person who didn’t eat, the pushy stewardess — turned telemarketer, started to INSIST I eat. She would keep handing me the menu, and tell me things like. “Just eat, just eat. Aroi (delicious)”. I’d say no, but she wouldn’t stop hasseling me. Finally, I just ignored her and she left. Later on, that evening she comes back to hand everyone their checks for their meals, I get a check. I’m confused at why, turns out that free Tang I got wasn’t free at all. It was 40 baht! A drink that would usually cost 5-10 baht turned out to be 40. After that, I didn’t look at that woman again.
14 hours later we reach Krung Thep Mahanakhon Amon Rattanakosin Mahinthara Ayuthaya Mahadilok Phop Noppharat Ratchathani Burirom Udomratchaniwet Mahasathan Amon Piman Awatan Sathit Sakkathattiya Witsanukam Prasit, aka: Bangkok.
The air is thick and humid when we get off the train car. The environment is nothing like Chiang Mai, poverty and pollution is a lot more prevalent in the train station alone. I’m excited but also, interested to see what Bangkok has to present for me. Everyone talks about this city like its amazing—but then again, isn’t that every city or any congested area? When we leave the station, the streets bring familiar senses, the smell of fried chicken, the sounds of Thai chatter and sights motorbikes — although, cars seem to dominate the streets of Bangkok more than the motorbikes of Chiang Mai. Soon, after we find our guest house and settle we are already getting reading for a boat trip around Bangkok’s canals. This was exciting — but too long, but I suppose we got our money’s worth? Or maybe it was because I had to use the bathroom — bad? Anyhow, on this trip we were taken to see a museum on old Thai ships, had lunch in a small district and saw more wats. This was all interesting, but just the fact that it was 100+ degrees and the air was thick enough to rest on, made it extremely difficult pay attention. My favorite stop of the day was the Siam History Museum. This place was HUGE and air conditioned! The information in the museum was very artsty and informative, I really enjoyed that through out the entire museum of Thai history, the king and those before him, were not talked mentioned. I also felt that the museum didn’t hold any sorts of major Thai biases. Everything was just information — both bad and good. That was nice.
Later on that night, we have an hour before our guest speaker and a documentary on “Hok Tulaa”, the student protests in Thailand that ended up becoming a massacre on October 6th, 1976. During this time, I had time to reflect on what I had seen that day, for me personally, nothing of Bangkok had any interest to me. Bangkok to me just looked and felt like Chicago in August, but with lots of really dressed up Asian people. The crowd was a mixture of classes; it was mostly made up of businessmen, university students, street kids and a lot of women who looked like they worked in department stores. I guess I expected this, no mountains, no big spaces of plant life — unless it was a neatly trimmed park, and no slowing down. Everyone seems to be in a rush, an endless cycle of going to work, going to school or going to eat. [So boring.]
The next day I had the chance to see my old friend, Jirawat. Jirawat goes by the name Jeremy. Jeremy attends Thammasat University, possibly the second best school in Bangkok? He’s studying business — focusing in marketing, he says its more “creative” than doing just regular business… Uhmm… Anyhow, Jeremy studied at the University of Iowa about 1 ½ ago. Our ideas, beliefs and goals are totally opposite — often times conflicting, but it was nice to see an old friend. He showed me around the major areas of Bangkok, i.e. SIAM PARAGON — one of the biggest malls in Asia, and possibly the most ridiculous. All you see are western ads of how to be modern, and stylish — for a hefty price that is. I don’t know why he brought me there because he doesn’t like shopping and he didn’t know where anything was in the mall, it’s probably because I’m a girl. In the mall, I went to the book store and got ice cream, which was interesting enough for me.
We go to a few night markets, same stuff as in Chiang Mai. Sometimes it’s cheaper, sometimes it’s not. The only difference between the Chiang Mai night markets and Bangkok night markets was that Bangkok had red light districts within the markets. It was sick to see foreign men — old white dudes, with big grins on their faces walking into brothels. Ugh.
So, finally our last day arrives. I’m excited to go home. Bangkok was nice. I loved their transportation system — awesome. But everything else was just extremely western and a repeative cycle of hating yourself for the man. I was ready to get out of the humidity, see some mountains and enjoy the slow-er pace of Chiang Mai.
Tuesday, March 10, 2009
Monday, March 9, 2009
Room mate chat #??
Before I leaving for Bangkok, I hadn't seen my room mate for 5 days. ...I don't think she has a boyfriend...and I don't really know where she could've been, but I knew (some how) that she was okay. So, before leaving I had left a note saying, "Gone to Bangkok, be back on Sunday". I was kind of happy I didn't have to say goodbye, cause then I would've felt obliged to buy her a gift and say some cutesy fake n' cheezy "I'm going to miss you" goodbye - (we get along so-so, but we're not "buddies" per se). So, Bangkok trip ends and I come home, still feeling kind of bad for not getting her something, but also ready to see her sitting on her bed, eating and watching TV. I walk in. She's not there! Half of me is like, "aweeesome!" and the other half notices that she hasn't been to the room since the note was written. Nothing was moved - her bed was still a mess with water bottles laid all over her sheets and her shoes were still in the same position as when I left - messy and in the way. I was a little worried now. I mean, even the week before Bangkok when I had last seen her, she just had her uniform on, and since she hadn't been back to the room once, that means she must have been wearing just that outfit for a little over 2 weeks! Does she have a boyfriend? Did she go to her parents home? Is she lost? Kidnapped!? All of these thoughts ran through my head - for about 5 minutes, then I was like, she's fine, plus I have some privacy, yay! :)
Later on that night I'm in the computer lab when my friend Dao walks in. "Seashia, guess what? 3 guesses." "You're room mates gone? - No. You finished your home work? -No. Uhh, Oh...NO! My room mates home!?? -Yessss."
So I go to my room, prepared for the awkwardness. I walk in and:
Me: Hi, Kae. Long time no see, is everything okay?
Kae: Yes, sorry.
Me: It's okay.
Kae: You went to Bangkok? Fun na?
Me: Yes, but too hot, and I like Chiang Mai better.
Kae: Yeah, I've never been to Bangkok, but I know I don't like it.
Me: :)
Kae: Oh, 'shia, sorry na, last week I go to the hospital.
Me: Really? Why? Are you okay??
Kae: Yes. I had (makes a circle with her pointer and thumb) in my breast.
Me: What? A lump? Like, do you know breast cancer??
Kae: Yes, but I am okay now. See I got shots in my arm. (shows me her arms...I don't really see any holes, but I believe her)
Me: (feeling really really guilty for not getting her something, and being critical about her cleanliness)
Kae: Sorry I didn't tell you.
Me: It's okay. Are you okay now? How is everything??
Kae: Good. All good.
After this I start to realize that she really doesn't look the same, her skin has really lightened - white, she looked like she lost some weight and her hair was really long! - she got glued in extensions! I didn't really know what to say after this. Did she really get a lump removed from her breast, or did she get some major beauty enhancements done over those 2 weeks... She's never really talked about the lump again, but is in love with her new skin and long hair. I'm confused. I really hope she didn't use a lump in the breast as an excuse for being gone those two weeks.
Saturday, March 7, 2009
Got Milk Zone?

"Seashia, I'll show you Chiang Mai University, then we can go drink milk." -Jennifer Thao
So, I went to Milk Zone today. My friend Jennifer decided to take me here after our dinner together. This is a very popular milk bar that serves some Thai foods, toasted bread - with anything imaginable that you would want on a piece of toast and non-alcoholic milk drinks - only! It's especially popular among the Chiang Mai University Thai girls, and the Thai boys who want to holler at the milk drinkin' girls. I was a little confused when she told me we were going to go to a bar, a milk bar, to drink milk... cause you know, people usually go to bars to drink booze. Bad girls drink beer and good girls drink...milk. It's a really cute opinion, I think. I guess milk bars are really big in Chiang Mai, there are Internet milk cafes, milk gardens, milk restaurants and milk stands. Milk Zone, I am told is the original, and the others are just wannabes.
The inside of Milk Zone was really cute and child-like! The bar is built in the style of a bamboo hut, mixed with a doll house. There was upbeat K-pop music playing in the background and a little teal spiral stair case in the center. The menus for ordering the drinks were also really cute - and complicated - for me at least. (The picture above is of the menus) Each menu served a different purpose... I don't remember what though, because I ended up just getting the 5 page foreigners menu for ordering milk - not as cute. The drinks were really interesting, you could get hot milk, cold milk, warm milk, thick milk, thin milk, red, yellow, green, blue, pink etc. etc. milk, milk with ice cream, milk with honey, milk with ice...you get the point. By this time I was a little overwhelmed with how many ways you could drink milk, so I just got green milk with ice cream. The milk drinks were really good and REALLY sweeeet. I couldn't even finish it cause I was getting sleepy - sugar makes me sleepy, and I was also getting a headache.
Anyhow, Milk Zone is a neat place. I recommend it to young girls ages 14 - 23 (for the inside section) 23+ (outside section).
Check it out!


Pictures taken from the web. Props to: weenaprapa1@hotmail.com
Thursday, March 5, 2009
Random Street Chat #1:
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After the performance, my friend Bintou and I decided to go on a walk on Neimanheiman - big touristy area. (Since we were dressed all in black, we felt really classy, mature, mysterious...etc.etc.) The weather was really nice, the sun had just set and it wasn't too hot. Neimanheiman is a really interesting street at night, well, firstly because we'd never actually walked the streets at night - not unless we were with a bunch of drunk farang (foreigners), and during those times, you're usually like, "Wait, where are we going? ...oh another Rasta bar? ...oh, ok." I didn't realize how most of the bars turn into 24-hour brothel pool bars. I was like, "Daaang!" Well, it was funny because we had walked pass a brothel bar and all the women in there were like, "Wow, Suwaaaay! (beautiful)" and then they took pictures with us. After that, we decide to cross the busy street when all of the sudden this not-too-creepy old Norweigen man starts talking to us, and this is how it went:
Me: Are you hungry? Let's go eat somewhere.
Bintou: Yeah, I want a hamburger.
Me: Ok, well lets cross the street and turn around cause this area is creepy and dark.
Norweigen Man: Hi! Where are you two from!?
(Bintou and I look at each other)
B: Uhh. I'm from the Gambia.
Me: The US.
NM: Yes, but originally where are you from? Japan right??
Me: No.
NM: You're Japanese aren't you?
Me: No, I'm Hmong.
NM: What? What's that?? (doesn't care) ...Anyhow, do you guys live around here?
B: ...
Me: No.
NM: Where do you live?
Me: Uhmm...farther away. We're Payap students.
NM: Oh okay, do you guys like art?? I'm a painter. I would really like you guys to see my work.
Me: (HAHAHA!) Oh yeah? I do like art. Do you have a website?

NM: No, all my art is at the hotel where I'm staying at. Do you guys have time? Do you want to see?? It's right over there. ...If you guys aren't free tonight? We can reschedule for tomorrow.
Me: Uhh...yeah, maybe tomorrow... Do you have a card?
NM: No, but here. (He hands me a newspaper clipping of himself, on the bottom of the picture it says: Scientist, Artist, Author - creepy, and interesting??)
Me: Okay. Uhm, sorry but, well, we gotta go.
NM: Yes, maybe we will all meet again?? Remember I am staying at the Royal Chiang Mai Hotel.
Me: I can only hope to meet again. Royal Chiang Mai Hotel. Got it.
(Man walks off)
B: What was that?
Me: I donno, that guy was creepy! Was he legit??
B: I donno...
Me: Let's go eat.


